THE VIRGINIAN-PILOT, Page: E5
10 Sep 1994
By Larry Maddry
UH, ABOUT THE wedding . . . I guess you could call it a frog gig. After all, the
wedding invitation had frogs printed on it.
Linda Fulgham took Bob Culpepper - warts and all - for better or worse on Aug. 20 at
the First Presbyterian Church in Virginia Beach.
The reception was held only a hop away at the Hilton Inn Oceanfront.
It was not your usual reception. As you've probably guessed, the couple is hung up on
frogs.
There were two cakes. The wedding cake contained a green pond on top with two frogs in
it. The groom's cake also had two frogs.
The flowers were all in froglike vases. Stuffed tree frogs decorated the food tables.
And during the reception, a frog music box tinkled with the reception's theme:
"Some
Day My Prince Will Come."
There were lots of froggy presents for the bride and groom.
On their honeymoon, the couple visited a rain forest on the Olympic Peninsula in the
state of Washington to look for frogs. Then they went to Frog's Leap, Calif., to tour the
Frog's Leap Winery.
"We're both frog admirers and collectors and it seemed the only thing to do," Linda
said.
Bob's interest in frogs came by accident. Years ago, when the Old Dominion University
graduate worked in a research and analysis firm, he bought a poster with a big green frog
on it that said: "Time's sure fun when you're having flies."
"People at work assumed I really liked frogs, and I began getting frog gifts . . .
especially on my birthday," he said. Stuffed frogs, frogs on posters, frogs on plates,
you name it.
Linda, also an ODU grad, said her interest began a lot earlier. Raised in Norfolk, she
remembered a big fat toad that set up shop beneath the family dog house when she was a
girl.
Times must have been a lot gentler back then. Looking at the frog was one of her
favorite things. "He was really big, and he was always under the dog house. I went out to
look at him from time to time. I thought he was pretty neat."
By the time she met Bob - about 15 years ago - she already had a large collection of
frogs, hundreds of them, including frog rings, frog earrings and frog jewelry.
Before they were engaged, the nature-loving couple spent a lot of time at Seashore
State Park where they looked at birds. And frogs, natch.
They debated whether to have a traditional wedding. "And we both said `nah.' So we
went with frog invitations," she said.
Bob said they thought the Frog's Leap Winery in California was cool. "It's built on
the site of a frog hatchery," he explained. "We brought back T-shirts and sweat shirts
with the Frog's Leap logo on them."
And they both remembered an interesting South American bullfrog they saw while visiting
Seattle on their honeymoon. "It must have weighed 5 pounds and was bigger than a
plate,"
he said.
Linda is an employee at Bell Atlantic Telephone and Hecht's and lives in Virginia
Beach. Bob is employed by Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory and is
living in Maryland.
It is not an ideal arrangement, they say. So Bob is working on a transfer to Hampton
Roads.
"When we get a home, we'll be able to use the frog presents we got in it, including a
neat frog crossing sign," Linda said.
Bob said he'd like to put a frog pond in the back yard.
They hope to have their own pad, soon.
Bob is Robert Leon Culpepper, born in Norfolk, VA, son of Maurice
Leon Culpepper, son of John Wilson "Captain Jack" Culpepper,
son of John Peter Culpeper, son of Hardy Culpepper, Jr., son of Hardy
Culpepper, descendant of five consecutive generations of Henry
Culpeppers, the oldest of whom was the son of John Culpeper the Merchant
who emigrated from England.